New Jersey
The truth is we are pretty free to do what we want here. We are told by state law that we have to give a comparable education........and that's it. Yes, there have been some school districts that have give individual families a hard time, but usually, if you keep your cool, and cooperate with them it turns out o.k.
http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Agora/3009/
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